Queen of the Perky People


Look at Fifty Shades Of Grey's knot.

Now look at my knot.

Now back at FSoG.  Now back at me.

This is the knot your knot could look like if you bothered to ask actual BDSM players, or hell, even their YouTube channels, before making a movie supposedly about BDSM.  I’m not a rope top and I did that one-handed.

I’m on a horse.

The thing where they justify abuse by saying “it’s BDSM, of course it’s sick and wrong” is still a bigger problem though.


Thank you Marina! Her first tattoo.. Great to meet you 💜 #peacock #peacocktattoo #tattoo #tattoos #feather #feathertattoo (at Jolie Rouge)

I adore her peacocks, methinks I may have my next tattoo……


Thank you Marina! Her first tattoo.. Great to meet you 💜 #peacock #peacocktattoo #tattoo #tattoos #feather #feathertattoo (at Jolie Rouge)

I adore her peacocks, methinks I may have my next tattoo……


if you wannabe my lover, you gotta get with my feminist ideologies

I used to be married to a woman. Before that I had had a relationship with a man. I then had another relationship with a woman, and I since then have had relationships with men. I still would define myself as bisexual partly because that’s how I feel but also because I think it’s important to — I think sexuality in this country especially is seen as a very black and white thing, and I think we should encourage the gray. You know?

I don’t go around in my life thinking, “Oh, my God, I’m going to have to have sex with a woman soon because I said I was bisexual!” … It’s like saying you’re straight or you’re gay — it’s just what you are, and whatever you’re doing in your life it runs obviously parallel, but it’s kind of secondary to how you are inside. That’s how I’ve always felt, and I still do, even though I’m very happily married to a really amazing man and wish to be so for the rest of my life.

Alan Cumming from an interview on NPR’s Fresh Air

This quote is a great reminder of how easy it is to erase people who are bisexual or pansexual and in long term relationships. Two of the most lovely bisexual ladies I know both experience this: one is bisexual, married to a woman, and has kids—most assume she’s lesbian because she hasn’t dated men since college, but she’s confident in her bisexuality. The other just got married not long ago to a man and is a proud bisexual advocate—but finds explaining that her husband hasn’t ‘turned her straight’ really, really annoying (he finds it just as annoying).

(via intellectualfangirl)


The Stonewall Riots were started by trans PoC, and making a movie about it, directed by a cis white guy, and starring a cis white guy. is probably one of the biggest slaps in the face to the trans community to date. Transwomen of color started the riots, and were swept under…


when is the last time you saw a bisexual who wasn’t between the ages of 13-30 on tv? (and i am being generous with that age range)

bisexual representation in high school dramas and porny soaps is not enough.

i want to see biromantic kids coming out in kindergarten,…

This! All of this!



PROTECT and DEFEND trans women

if you put trans women in danger because you can’t help running your fucking mouth, you are the ENEMY and will be ERADICATED

if you are a cis person who scrolled past this without reblogging because you don’t feel like it’s a necessary message for your other cis friends to see, i want you to know you’ve made it that much harder to trust you

Best Kiss In The Whole Damn Show!

Best Kiss In The Whole Damn Show!